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Dear Aling Dionisya,

My ex and I broke up 8 months ago due to our differences and trust issues. But it's too personal so I don't want to elaborate more about our relationship and our break up. However, even though she and I broke up the communication between the two of us have always remain strong. As a matter of fact, we've been hanging out a lot for the last month. On the other hand, she made it clear that were not getting back together that its purely friendship, also the fact that she's already dating somebody else. She claims that she has strong feelings for him, I really want her back, but I'm so clueless on how to do it... What should I do???


Leon

Dear Leon,

Ewwwyo parang mantil ... It's plain obvious what she wants ... One thing you should ask yourself, why would you try and fight for someone who doesn't feel the same way you do ... Worst of it all she have move on leaving you behind ... This whole hanging out as friends is not going to work out for both of you at least not at this moment. It's so clear that your so attached to her, that you fear that if you completely let go of her you would be nothing. You have to realize that your the most important person in your life and that your own happiness should be your number one priority and not her nor anybody else. Let her go ... she has someone in her life now and she bluntly and repeatedly told you "SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU BACK!" Have some self respect and stop trying to win her back. She's aware of what you feel, so if she ever change her mind she knows where to find you ... Don't put your life on hold over some girl it's not worth it. Stop torturing yourself with the whole sleepover bullshit. YOU WANT TO WIN HER BACK MAYBE THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO MAKE YOUR SELF SCARCE, MAYBE THEN THAT'S THE ONLY CHANGE YOU HAVE WITH HER. STOP ACTING LIKE A PUPPY WAITING FOR HER TO PLAY WITH YOU!!!

ALING DIONISYA