FAREWELL TO YOU MY FRIENDS

Dear Aling Dionisya,

I’m what you call Ms. Friendship … I enjoy meeting a lot of people and making new friends as well. But lately, I haven’t been the same; I started being remote towards them. For what reason, well I myself can’t even answer that. The only thing that is registering in my head right now is I felt used. What made me draw to that conclusion, most of the time, but not every single time people would come to me when they have issues. When they need to lash out their emotions, anger, or need a favor. Any situation whether its related to their bf/gf or friendship issues. However, when everything is okay they don’t seem to remember me. Now tell me Aling Dionisya am I just over acting or this feeling that I have is justifiable?

Ms. Friendship

DEAR MS. FRIENSHIP,

EWWWYO PARANG MANTIL!!! IT’S QUITE ASHAMED THAT YOU FEEL THAT WAY TOWARDS YOUR FRIENDS. ALSO, IT’S FAIRLY SAD THAT YOU FRIENDS ARE GIVING YOU THAT REASON TO FEEL THAT WAY. YOU MAY OR MAY NOT BE OVERREACTING, I MEAN THERE MUST BE A LOGICAL EXPLANATION WHY YOU THOUGHT THAT WAY. EVERY NOW AND THEN WE ALL NEED A LITTLE SPACE FROM ONE ANOTHER SPECIFICALLY WHEN ONE IS ALREADY GETTING SUFFUCATED IN THE RELATIONSHIP. AND MAYBE THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED. HOWEVER, SOMETIMES WE ALL HAVE TO ADMIT THAT WE HAVE A FEW SO-CALLED FRIENDS THAT WE KEEP IN OUR INNER CIRCLE FOR WHAT? WE MAY NEVER KNOW THE ANSWER BUT THEY’RE THERE AND NOW YOU HAD ENOUGH …
THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS TO BREAK AWAY FROM FRIENDS WITHOUT DRAMA. AND THAT IS DISTANT! IT MIGHT APPEAR, UNKIND NEVERTHELESS SECLUDING YOURSELF FROM FRIENDS IS FREQUENTLY THE MOST EFFECLECTUAL IN ENDING ANY AFFILIATION, AND IS RATHER DRAMA FREE. NOW WHAT IF IT DOESN’T WORK? ON THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES ALLOW THEM TO BRING UP THE CASE TO YOU. GIVE THEM THE RIGHT TO ASK QUESTION, THEN TELL THEM YOUR SITUATION WHY YOUR BEING ALOOF TO THEM. IF THEY STILL DON’T GET IT AND THEY CAN’T RESPECT YOUR FEELING, THAT CONCLUDES THAT YOU MADE THE RIGHTFUL DECISION AND YOU SHOULDN’T FEEL BAD.
FREQUENTLY, BREAKUPS CAN BE VERY POIGNANT; ON THE OTHER HAND THEY DON’T HAVE TO BE SOMEWHAT SO BAD AS LONG AS YOUR VERY FIRM WITH YOUR CHOICE. DON’T COMPLY WITH ANY UNJUST BEHAVIOR THAT YOUR FRIENDS WILL GIVE YOU. ITS YOUR LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU MUST NOT COMPROMISE YOUR OWN PLEASURE FOR THE SAKE OF OTHER PEOPLE WHICH MOST CERTAINLY ARE NOT FOND OF YOU ANY LONGER. IT’S AN ACTUALITY OF LIFE, OCCASIONALY FRIENDS GROW APART, AND SOMETIMES A BREAK UP IS FORSEEABLE.
BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO, BUT KEEP IN MIND EVERYONE WILL HAVE TO SAY ADIEU TO SOMEONE AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE.